Hello Redding and beyond! I have officially moved offices, and am almost finished setting up my new studio/ healing sanctuary. This new office and building I am in feels wonderful and the people I share the building with are kind, caring and big hearted. I look forward to creating more of that feeling in my yoga classes, yoga and massage workshops and massage sessions with my clients and friends. Thank you so much for your business, support and genuine, real beings. Many blessings...to you...♥
Hello Redding and beyond! I have officially moved offices, and am almost finished setting up my new studio/ healing sanctuary. This new office and building I am in feels wonderful and the people I share the building with are kind, caring and big hearted. I look forward to creating more of that feeling in my yoga classes, yoga and massage workshops and massage sessions with my clients and friends. Thank you so much for your business, support and genuine, real beings. Many blessings...to you...♥ Add Comment Hello beautiful beings! Breath lesson. Mind brain has stress. Body brain feels stress. Because our cells throughout us have 'ears' on them. Stress...Limits the the life force energy in us. Breath carries healing energy(that life force) and consciousness. Pay attention to how you breathe...are you able to truly get deep opening breaths around your heart(front and back) and up into your shoulder blades? Can you feel your breath down into your toes? If not try it..and practice, keep practicing. Breath is the life force that connects everything....you can use your breath to relax your mind, your muscles, your entire being. You can use your breath to heal, feel and reel in the peace of the universe....<3 You now how some people are tech 'geeks' or book 'geeks'? I am a mind/body geek! Absolutely love the human body! Been studying some new massage techniques for releasing scar tissue and adhesion's from injuries and repetitive stress. Today I practiced them on a regular client..and his shoulders had more mobility in them than ever. I LOVE that..and the capacity of the human body to heal. It was so wonderful to see him walk out of the office with ease and movement! After, almost 12 years of massage experience and 14 years of yoga experience..and I am still totally amazed at the human body/mind! Our mind/body are one, so connected in unity. Remember when our minds are stressed & zooming, so can our bodies feel tense and tight. Remember to slow down, synch-in and do things that promote stillness and quietness within. Massage, Meditation and Yoga are all great for this. I personally love how deeply connecting with my muscles and slowly stretching into releasing them feels amazing. Blessings...  As I graduated from massage school years ago the director of the school gave us some parting advice, “Some of you will continue on successfully in this industry and some of you won’t. If you are passionate about this and want to succeed, my recommendation is that you massage as many people as you can right away, more than what you have already massaged during your training.” I smiled the other day as what he said popped into my head. This after massaging a couple of clients where deeper realizations were experienced on both our parts. These weren’t realizations that could be taught from a book or from a teacher in front of the room, it was these kind of realizations the massage director knew would come to us after years of dedicated massage practice. Organic, raw realizations of being so present that you experience deeper universal truths of how amazing our mind/body truly is. As I sunk my elbow deeper into my clients back muscles there was a point where my pressure could go no further. An internal resistance, which as a novice massage therapist years ago would have had me try harder and massage harder, many times hurting my own body. All while feeling how no difference had been made with my clients tight muscles. When I met this resistance recently in a client, I do what I always do. I slowed down more and backed off in my pressure just a bit. This to give the muscles a little energetic message that it was ok to let go and relax. Sometimes in these cases the muscles are so wound up from internal stress, they do not let go and will not let go no matter how hard a massage therapist presses. I promise. In this case as I let up in my pressure, then the client himself realized he was not letting go internally. He internally felt how it was his mind that was affecting his muscles being tight. I was so happy for him that I let out a happy giggle. A joy for me to witness. He could feel that deeply in himself and his own internal awareness/resistance. He knew his resistance to his own relaxation was why his muscles were deeply tight. A beautiful moment for both of us. He said he had never experienced his internal awareness like that before. Then I knew it would set the stage for him to really begin his healing process of awakening to deeper relaxation in himself. The other amazing realization actually came when working on another client doing deep tissue massage as well. As I met his resistance I let up a little again. I asked him to be aware of what his breath was doing which is always a good thing to do with any type of massage. As I started to explain a little more about breath linking to internal resistance, I made the utter connection that if we can be aware of our breath as a conscious vibrating energy(and it is), that breath work can be like giving ourselves an internal deep tissue massage & deep inner yoga stretch at once. All from the inside out. Our energy gets bound up inside just like our muscles get bound up outside. Plus it is all connected as one. Breath is a bridge linking both. As I said it will not matter how deep I massage tight muscles. When we have inner bindings and stress in our soul and are not aware of it our muscles stay chronically tight and tense. We can learn to consciously let it go > If we don't we coil right back up to being tight. As I made this realization during the massage, the client was also experiencing it internally while I was explaining it to him. In combination together he used his breath to give himself the internal unwinding while I was doing the external unwinding with my hands. During which I was realizing how much I love what I do and am truly blessed. Then I realized it was exactly those beautiful moments of synchronistic, conscious connection that my massage director was talking about. I smiled in deep gratitude for the gift of wisdom he gave us all. Check out the Redding Massage Therapy and Yoga in Redding CA.  Therapeutic Massage for Couples In the Massage and Yoga Sanctuary in Redding where I have a massage office, both men and women come into buy massages for their significant others. The intent of these gifts are wonderful. The significant others are always grateful. However, there are times in massage sessions where a client will say, “I wish my husband or wife could massage me the way you do“ . They say, “you have this way of connecting to my body that my partner does not“. Those comments illustrate what is often times missing between many couples- a deeper, loving, physical connection. Because they want that level of connection with each other, many couples are requesting that I teach them how to massage each other. There is a deeper message that is being communicated to me from couples, not just male and females couples either, all variation of couples, gay or straight. Women tend to receive massage more, so for their men I teach them that one of the greatest gifts they can give their woman is the magic of being a man who gives touch and massage with the intent of having her feel good, all without wanting sex after wards. This intent can apply to any variation of couple. It’s simply genuine intent and open heart space that people wish to feel, whether they are consciously aware of it or not. This is why professional massage feels so good. Many of us massage therapists have trained ourselves with that level of intention and presence. I teach clients that giving your partner loving, therapeutic touch is much less expensive(and more fun) than buying “things” like an expensive dinner or flowers, especially if funds are limited. Lately, stress levels for so many are higher than ever. For couples though, during high stress times, the physical, intimate connection is what often times gets neglected first. Luckily now in society it is becoming widely accepted that therapeutic massage and touch are ways to decrease stress levels. Loving, therapeutic touch can always be available between two people. The benefits of massage are infinite; physiological, emotional, and physical. In addition the boundless loving energy that can be exchanged between two people is amazing. Everything is linked. The mind/body are one, when you affect one area, you always affect the others. Here are just a few of the benefits of massage; A physiological benefit is that touch releases serotonin in the body, and serotonin is the “feel good” chemical. This connects right to the emotional benefit of touch, it feels good, it brings happiness. The physical benefit when the body is touched, is that muscles will relax, thus decreasing tightness. This decreases pain in the body. It’s always a cyclical effect. Clients will say to me, "I can’t massage my partner because I don’t have strong hands or my partner just doesn’t know how to get to those tight spots." There are ways to train oneself so those problems do not affect the level of connection between a couple. The real goal is staying connected with the intent of love and presence, because energy goes where thoughts(intent) flows. You can have tiny hands and still give an excellent massage. Like I mentioned above, nothing beats getting a high quality therapeutic massage. You get presence, experience, plus the breadth of knowledge of a professional massage therapist. All this, without having to give back. You lay on the massage table and drift off into dream land, trusting that the massage therapist will attune to you, your body and give you the love and focus you need. If you have a truly skilled massage therapist, then he or she will know the power of giving massage from an open heart. You can sense in anyone’s touch what their intent is. The warmth of their heart will flow through their hands. Imagine that you and your partner have all those qualities. It is possible. This is where intent comes into play. In your mind’s eye imagine how wonderful it feels receiving loving, therapeutic touch from a trusted partner. You can still drift into dream land. Trust that your partner is giving to you because they want to make you feel good and you don’t have to give back. Then practice giving touch to them the same way. There are many skills and techniques one can learn to give excellent therapeutic touch for helping each other de-stress and relax. First though it really comes down to heart space with the ebb and flow of giving and receiving. Like I said, energy flows where intent goes. If you want to make your partner feel good, then your partner will feel good. This open heart space coupled with communication are keys for navigating the art of giving and receiving. Especially during stressful times, staying lovingly connected is one of the most important things we can do for each other. This loving connection replaces material things. Plus that abundant energy is returned to us in profound ways. Next time you are stressed, maybe just let that stress go. Focus with your partner on giving and receiving therapeutic touch. You might be surprised at how it can relax both of you. Please check out my website for more information! | Redding Massage BlogCheri Davis-Author
Cheri's insights and observations during her professional massage and yoga experience for how therapeutic massage and yoga help the mind/body in healing. Healing from the inside out and outside in.  Home
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